How To Seduce Her In 10 Minutes
Many things run through a woman's mind when you meet. Here's how to go from "hello" to "oh my."
Your Approach
Her
brain quickly vets your height and facial symmetry the moment you meet.
Now convince her of your character. Approach confidently; don't pretend
to bump into her. "Men tend to talk to each other at angles to avoid
confrontation," says Rutgers University anthropologist Helen Fisher,
Ph.D., author of Why We Love. "But women face each other head-on and maintain eye contact."
Your Introduction
A
good handshake isn't a shortcut to her bed, but a bad one can doom you.
Hands are loaded with tactile nerves, and people with weak, clammy
handshakes were perceived as shy and neurotic in a recent University of
Alabama study. So hold your drink in your left hand and give her a firm
but not bone-crushing grasp. Pay attention to her grip as well: The same
study showed that women who give firmer handshakes tend to be more
adventurous.
Your Voice
The
most attractive women prefer deep-voiced men, according to a recent
study by Scottish researchers. It suggests high testosterone levels, a
sign of strength and reproductive prowess. Push out air with your
diaphragm, not your throat. This lengthens the column of air moving past
your vocal cords. "It's like a built-in subwoofer," says voice coach
Joanne Joella.
Your Icebreaker
Say
something that will draw out details about her. "Your friends seem
nice—how did you get to know them?" is a compliment and a window into
her past. Forming a bond will release dopamine, a mood booster in her
brain. Show off your interest with verbal nods of agreement ("uh-huh,"
"go on"), adds Alex Pentland, Ph.D., an MIT professor who designed
software that assesses whether speed daters are feeling sparks.
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